Looking Good . . . Not!
What do window blinds and a cell phone have in common? I learned the answer to that question the other day when God used experiences with both to catch my attention.
The first situation involved my cell phone. I charged it on Wednesday. By Thursday evening, the battery widget continued to show 100%. Hmmm . . . odd, considering I had used the phone multiple times that day. On Friday, the widget still showed 100%. There had to be something wrong, yet I trusted the read-out. Saturday morning, I woke up to a totally dead phone.
That same Saturday, I joined a team of sweet women from my church to serve at our local Care Net center. Our goal was to give the offices a deep cleaning. One of our tasks was to clean the window blinds. Funny thing is, they looked clean . . . until we actually began to wipe the horizontal slats with wet rags. Clean? Not even close!
I wondered at the double lesson that day. And I was convicted.
What do people see when they look at me? Do they see the real me? Or do they see what I want them to see: someone who looks good. A person with all the cracks filled and hidden and the dirt swept under the proverbial rug.
Looking good isn’t enough
But looking good isn’t the same as being good. My phone appeared powered for two days while behind the read-out, the battery power steadily ebbed away. And those window blinds appeared clean until we reached out to actually touch them.
Like my phone and those window blinds, the truth will out. The false report of the widget did not negate the dead battery in my phone. And the murky water in the cleaning bucket attested to the layer of dirt clinging to those seemingly clean slats.
Sooner or later, the real me will show. Looking good isn’t good enough. Will others see authenticity? Someone who is transparent about her times of temptation or discouragement? Will they see someone who is real?
I’m reminded of Jesus’s strong rebuke of the Pharisees—the religious leaders of His day:
“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people’s bones and all uncleanness. So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness” (Matthew 23:27-28 ESV).
Ouch! Appearing righteous, but filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness. I don’t want that to be a description of me. There’s only one way to prevent this. The apostle Paul wrote of our need to be “transformed by the renewal of your mind” (Romans 12:2 ESV). And that transformation follows the verse which calls us to “present [our] bodies as a living sacrifice” (verse 1). Only God’s Holy Spirit working in and through us will achieve the transformation we seek so that we not only look good, we are good.
I love how we are constantly learning about ourselves. God uses things like cell phones and dirty blinds to remind us of the need for Him. Great message Ava.
I think it is so important to strive for authenticity. For too many years I hid behind a facade, convinced no one could like the “real me.” Now I realize it was the evil one speaking words of insecurity into my mind….all lies. God loves the real me, and so should I. I love your point that sooner or later, the truth will come out.
Wow, that’s convicting. It’s so true that we must be good–not just look good. An inward search of our own hearts is a good place to begin.
Thanks for sharing. A great reminder that sometimes we need to slow down and take a closer look at ourselves.
I love your analogy as it really makes you think. I believe it is so important to try to look at ourselves as others see us to help us become more Christ like. Thanks for the reminder.