Discussion is usually healthy. We learn from each other as we discuss and process new ideas or differing opinions. But what happens when we disagree about whether to have the discussion at all?
Nowhere have I seen Christian doctrine battled out more vehemently than on social media. Posts about Christian beliefs or particular teachers are lightning rods for people to comment for or against. A war of words ensues, and the one who originally posted often feels forced to delete the posting in the name of peace. One such “battle” occurred recently as commenters debated the validity of a particular celebrity teacher. Another friend posted a comment from the same teacher with the preface: “I don’t want to hear any lectures about the origin of this quote.”
Should we be discussing such things on social media, for the world to see? Or should we keep such discussions private, rather than exposing disunity to unbelievers? Should we even be discussing these things at all?
Some say if we want to be known by our love, we should not criticize or judge any other believer. After all, none of us are perfect. Others quote Bible verses that speak of the need to sort the wheat from the chaff or the chicken from the bones. Still others say those who take offense at such teachers are “immature” and that mature Christians should be silent on points of disagreement.
What does the Bible say on this subject? (All references are from the NASB.)
1. To be a pastor or Bible teacher carries great responsibility.
Of course, none of us are perfect, but that doesn’t exempt those who teach God’s word from handling it rightly.
“Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment. For we all stumble in many ways” (James 3:1-2).
“Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth” (II Timothy 2:15).
2. Error mixed with a little truth is always easier to believe than error alone.
Rarely does a Christian teacher or pastor teach pure error. Instead, false teachers often mix truth with error.
The enemy used this strategy from the beginning when he asked Eve, “Has God said, ‘You shall not eat from any tree of the garden’?” (Genesis 3:1). God had said not to eat of one tree, not all the trees.
Jesus warned us about the influence of false teaching:
“Then they understood that He did not say to beware of the leaven of bread, but of the teaching of the Pharisees and Sadducees” (Matthew 16:12).
3. With abundant access to Bible teachers through print and digital media, why sacrifice valuable time to listen to those known for mixing truth with error?
I know very few people who say they have too much time on their hands. If anything, most of us are rushing around with too much to do and not enough time to do it (and that’s a subject for another article). So why, with all the Bible teachers and pastoral teaching we have to choose from, would we intentionally give our valuable time to someone who is known for mixing truth with error?
4. We each have a responsibility regarding every Bible teacher, pastor, and scholar.
That responsibility is found in the description of the Bereans in Acts 17:11.
“These were more noble-minded than those in Thessalonica, for they received the word with great eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see whether these things were so.”
Does anyone really think these noble believers would have been given as an example for us to follow if they had identified errors in Paul’s teaching and decided to “keep the chicken and toss the bones”?
5. Should we silence our concerns about false teaching regardless of the response of other Christians?
Ever notice how those who want to silence detractors do so in the name of not judging others. Yet these same people pass their own judgment by calling such Christians immature, weak, or critical for sounding the alarm about false teaching.
Even if the one protesting is indeed weak, Paul addressed this when he wrote:
“Now accept the one who is weak in faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his opinions” (Romans 14:1).
And again in I Corinthians 8:9:
“Take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.”
If anything, we should deny ourselves any practice that would cause a brother- or sister-in-Christ to stumble, including the support of teachers whose doctrine or theology may be questionable.
6. Does Christian unity require showing love at the expense of speaking the truth?
Of course we should be known for our love. After all, love is indeed the greatest of the gifts and is an attribute of God Himself. But just as God does not separate His love from His other attributes, neither should we. Truth without love is harsh, but love without truth is nothing but emotion. We need both, as these verses note:
“And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ” (Philippians 1:9-10).
“As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming; but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ” (Ephesians 4:14-15).
If we see a brother or sister in Christ following wrong teaching, how loving is it to say nothing and let them continue down that road? We all are susceptible to blind spots. I would want to know, wouldn’t you?
7. Do large numbers (the teacher at the heart of the most recent debate claims 38,000 followers) validate teaching?
Large crowds do not guarantee right teaching. Throughout Scripture we see the importance of standing alone for what is right, regardless of what the majority does. We also see that when the nation or rulers taught or followed error, God always kept a remnant—a small group of people who were true to Him and His Word.
“Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires, and will turn away their ears from the truth” (II Timothy 4:2-4).
8. Has the church lost its relevancy because we’re too busy judging others?
Matthew 7:1-5 is probably the second best known Bible passage after John 3:16.
“Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”
But this passage is one of the most misunderstood, as well. How can it possibly mean that we are never to evaluate the actions of another when the very next verse (verse 6) says:
“Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.”
In order to determine who the “dogs” or “swine” are, we have to make a judgment. Jesus also said, “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment” (John 7:24).
So we are, in fact, to make some judgments. The issue is how we do it. We are not to be hypocritical and self-righteous, focusing on someone else’s “speck” while ignoring our own “log.” We are also never to judge anyone’s heart, for only God knows the heart. But we are expected to evaluate what we see and hear—actions and fruit—to determine if they are consistent with God’s Word and worthy of our following.
Discussion or disunity? Truth or error? When error is disregarded in the name of unity, something is wrong. As the “last days” draw near, rather than defending questionable teachers, shouldn’t we be immersing ourselves in solid biblical truth that doesn’t require excuse, justification, or defense?
Those are my thoughts. What are yours?
“Immersing ourselves in solid biblical truth” is my favorite quote from this article. It is vital to our life in this day and age of confusion via social media.
Thank you, Terri. You’re right – there is much information on social media that people take at face value instead of evaluating it in light of what the Bible says.
Recent experience with a lady that had obviously been led astray by one teaching to “itching ears”. I politely told her what the Bible said on the issue and she started arguing the point. I let it go and am praying for her. It is the Holy Spirit’s job to convict.
We have a responsibility to share the truth, Sharon, just as you did. But you’re right – it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to convict. Arguments aren’t helpful, as you experienced. Even if we win the argument, we often lose the relationship.
Thanks, Ava, for this article. I’ll highlight it on the Christian Poets & Writers blog to encourage others in our Facebook group to read it – http://christianpoetsandwriters.blogspot.com.
Also, I’d like to add that the Internet and social sites are no more than a large gathering, but how we’re to handle ourselves and the situations that arise is the same as the Bible tells us to respond within and without the church.
For example, if a Christian brother or sister does or says something troubling, we’re to talk to that person privately. (Email will do.:) And, yes, prayer helps!
May God give us the prayers to pray in Jesus’ Name.
Good point, Mary! Matthew 18 applies whether on social media or anywhere else! And thank you for sharing this post!
So well said (again). The bible is so very clear on this… when we teach God’s truth (the Bible) to the church and the “unchurch” all of teachings need to line up and point back directly to God & Who He says He is (He wrote the book after all). We go in His Name to teach & preach, and being light and salt generally means being against accepted majority opinion. Even Jesus couldn’t perform His miracles or wasn’t welcome in some places because of error or untruths present in their midst. And it’s always God’s Truth that set the captives free from the erroneous teaching out there… PTL
Also wanted to say that we Christians especially need to be reminded that our Creator hears, sees and knows our intent in our teachings 24/7 – which judge would you rather get judged by?